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If you have been thinking about a relationship with a Libra, you might want to make sure you are ready for this type of soul. His or her birthday occurs between September 23 and October 22.
Patience – A Libra likes to take their time to ensure they are making the right decision, so that means don’t rush them into anything. That will only push them away.
Infatuation – Even though Libra’s tend to really think through their decisions in life and you need to have patience with this, however when it comes to love they tend to dive right into love and are very susceptible to infatuation which could lead you to a quick marriage. If you don’t believe in divorce, you might want to slow your Libra down and be sure that it’s right enough to introduce marriage.
Conflict – Libras do not like conflict so if it is common for your to argue about nothing, then you might want to save it as a Libra will not be comfortable committing to someone who causes conflict and fights with them often.
Problem Solver – Your Libra is a problem solver and if you have issues in life your Libra will want to be involved in helping you fix them. If you are the type that like to vent your problems but ultimately want to be independent of actual help, then your Libra is going to get very frustrated with you. You must allow you Libra into your problems and allow them to help you carry the weight of that problem.
Organized - A Libra is very organized and likes a well balanced and organized environment to live in. Be prepared for this if you are not well kept at home because you both will drive each other crazy if you don’t prepare yourself for this.
Balance – Like I mentioned above, a Libra likes a well balanced life and that includes everything in its place. More importantly, they value very strongly the idea that you keep a well balanced life, between family, friends, work, etc. If you are a workaholic or you’re a lazy couch potato, maybe a Libra is not for you.
Socialization – Libras like to socialize. They enjoy being out and about with people and hate being alone. Be sure to give them enough space to mingle with their friends and family as it’s a natural occurrence for them. If you want your Libra all for yourself, you might want to go elsewhere.
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| Posted By Drew at 7:52:02 PM EST |
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The question that is almost as famous as "What is the meaning of life?". We have all loved someone in our lives at some point, so we all have had experience with what the basics of love is. Whether that love be towards a parent, a friend, a high school fling, etc and each one of those relationships you might consider that a different form of love. So love in this form can be quite natural and quite frankly easy to fall into and maintain, but there is certainly a growing trouble of what love is when it relates to a girlfriend/boyfriend, fiancee or even your spouse. Why do people fall into love and why just as easily fall out of love. What is true love and why don't I have it? What is love and how do you achieve this type of love that only can be witnessed in the movies these days?
Love starts with affection of one human being toward another and true love only comes when both humans fall equally in love with each other. Now love can very quickly be confused with infatuation and many people quickly get themselves into trouble when they think they are in love, but in fact its simply infatuation. Infatuation is the excitement of something new, being with someone new, the newness of the person you are with. This infatuation can make you do things blindly that you would never ever consider doing. Infatuation puts blinders on your eyes and makes you extremely narrow focused and don't think once you have reached infatuation you will take notice. Friends will try to tell you, but you will ignore them. I don't have much advice for you once you reach infatuation with someone, because there is not much that anyone can do once you have dived head first into it. So I guess the best word of advice is try your best to take some time to really look at the sitatuation that you have fallen into and really take a hard look at where it might head years down the road. Don't make any rash decisions that you would have otherwise not made, like having sex. Love is patient and love is kind. Love does not say you have to have sex with me this friday night. If someone loves you, they will wait for you.
It all starts with you! You have the ability to do whatever you want in life and it all starts with today as the first step. True love is a wonderful thing, its the comfort you have daily in your relationship to know that your mate loves you more than life itself, not just by what they say but the actions that they take towards you. The words "I love you" are so cheap and so many people say it day in and day out, but the rubber meets the road when actions meet reality. Your mate needs to show you that you are special in their life and I don't mean flowers and chocolates every night. A simple love note on the way out the door, mixing your spouse an unexpected hot cup of chocolate on a cold winter night. The simple little things in life that show you that they care.
Love comes with trust, respect and integrity. Love is the ability to truly trust your mate 100% to where you can honestly say deep down inside that your mate is true to you. Love is respecting your mate as a human being to where you can each live gracefully in each others presence 100% of the time. Love is having integrity amongst each other to keep secrets, be truthful in all that you do, and be honest with your mate when its time to be honest and to tell little white lies when it will make your mate feel better about themselves.
Love is a wonderful thing and you are the only one who can detect it because love is not the same thing for everyone, but a few things remain consistant. Human beings love to feel important to others and the comfort that comes out of a love of two people can make for an amazing life. People are not perfect and the realization of this and the acceptance of this is a part of being in love. The question you have to ask yourself is do you feel that you are in love? If not, then what are you going to do today to change that?
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| Posted By Drew at 7:18:40 PM EST |
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A letter from one of our readers:
"How about when your a complete gentleman. You intently listen to what your date says, open doors for her, pay or if I'm not allowed to ask if next I can, always on time, never rude, make her laugh whenever possible, never crowd her, and I have no expectations except to enjoy their company. Now the question is- one, where is one good woman. I give every girl equal consideration. I am good looking, 6'4" 197lbs. 24 yrs old male, have a great attitude, intelligent, giving, considerate, I've been called "the last knight in shining armor". I admit I'm a little shy but that is not the cause.
To tell the truth I've really had it with dating. Dating has gone from something that you would become really excited about two weeks before the actual date to balancing a checkbook. I can't be alone in with this problem, can I?
If there is any advice you could sent me I would greatly appreciate it."
Here is the reality of the situation. Most women like the "chase" they are given. A man becomes exciting to women for a variety of reasons. It may be their looks that push women over the edge, the man could create some level of mystery which creates curiosity in women or the man might just have that knack that creates a mode of needing to chase the man because he is exciting to the women. The excitement, adventure and even danger creates this chase for the women.
In most women’s eyes, a man as you describe is somewhat boring. Whether women admit it or not, they like the unexpected, the uncertainty of the moment which creates excitement, adventure and potentially even danger. You need to get a women’s heart pumping and you will slide yourself right into her love. Remember, a knight in shining armor is not what you describe. People refer to the knight in shining armor because they are mysterious, adventurous, brave, daring and most likely handsome. They will in a moment risk their life to conquer great fights over barren terrain all in the honor of saving their bride from the burning castle tower. That’s exciting and enough to get any women’s heart racing. What you describe is safe and usual or in other words, the average Joe and most women tend to like having average Joe's as friends and not lovers. You can’t just be an average Joe.
So let’s get back to reality, how does this relate to you? Confidence! Don’t be shy in anything you do or your mate will not view you as their knight. You may think that you are not shy, but the fact that you mention it tells me it exists. You must posses a high level of confidence and you must rid yourself from being shy in anything that you do. Always have your own opinion and be strong in your convictions. With confidence in everything you do, you will automatically create the mystery around you and will work toward winning the feelings of your mate. Opening a car door is nice, but getting on an airplane and jumping out while you hold hands with your mate is exciting. I am not saying you need to jump from an airplane, but everyone has their things in life that get their heart pumping. Be adventurous, be unexpected, be creative, be spontaneous and most of all be confident.
Drew is the creator of FriendPad.com, the free online dating site.
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| Posted By Drew at 8:14:41 AM EST |
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For those that are still in school, one of the best methods to meet people in school is through actually studying together. Whether that is a one on one regular study session with another class mate, a group project or a regular study group. This is a perfect situation where everyone is working together for an extended period of time toward the same goal and that is to all learn the topic at hand.
Studies have shown that especially one on one studying with the opposite sex actually arouses each others sexual desire. Even if you originally thought that you would never expect to form an emotional bond with your study partner, you might be surprised as of what happens if your meetings become regular.
Of course, don’t rush anything. You will want to become good friends with the person and then once it appears the connection is growing, take it to the next level by inviting the study partner out to a movie, club and/or dinner to talk further about subjects not related to school.
If nothing ever happens, you will have gained more knowledge together and potentially a good friend. If you’re in school, I strongly recommend that you put some energy into finding at least one study partner that you might be interested in this month. Just give it a shot and see what happens.
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| Posted By Drew at 7:44:16 AM EST |
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