So you want to know “How to Kiss?” Well the answer is never an easy one and it may be slightly different for everyone, but I can give you some general guidance to follow if you are venturing out on your first kiss. 

The question of how to kiss normally comes from the younger crowd so this article will delve into the basics of that first kiss. What to expect and what not to do, etc.

I should also point out that there is a difference between a first date kiss and what some might call “making out”. Let’s talk about the first date kiss. Unless you are getting an overabundant feeling that your date wants to go take in the sights at the local secluded make out spot, you will want to default to the typical walk her to the front door at the end of the date and as you recount the great time you guys just had, you say your good bye and we will be in touch, give her a brief kiss on either her cheek or lips. Always remember that you close your eyes when you kiss. Just imagine your mate openly their eyes during a kiss and seeing you staring blankly into her face. Not a good idea.

I have to warn you here gentlemen that it’s always a safe bet to give her a kiss on her cheek. You will have to be certain that she is prepared to receive a kiss on her lips. Women relate a kiss on their lips as an intimate gesture and if your mate is not ready to dive from friendship into something else, this could be an indicator to her that things are progressing too quickly for her liking and could lead her to push you away. Remember guys, there is always tomorrow to move further with your mate so don’t force something that isn’t right for the both of you. If you hone in on her body language towards you, you should have some idea whether she is open to going to the next step.

If the first kiss leads to more kissing, go with it. Keep in mind that you should keep pace with you mate. If your mate is taking their time and enjoying the experience, don’t hurry her along. Be gentle, kind, soft and passionate. The first kiss is always a negotiation between each others limits at that very moment in time. Give your mate time to negotiate with you and feel comfortable with where they have just gone before moving further along. 

With kissing, touch always comes into play. If you begin kissing, touch always follows to enhance that intimate closeness and coming together. Begin with something safe like your mate’s shoulders, hands, arms and then move to your mate’s back, etc… It’s always good to begin touching in areas that are so called “safe” areas. Places that if you touched someone you didn’t know, they wouldn’t immediately give you a swift kick for doing so or otherwise stated as non-intimate zones. Examples of non-intimate zones are your mate’s hands, shoulders, arms and maybe the upper back. On the other hand, examples of more intimate zones are your mate’s neck, face, hair, lower back or back side, legs, etc…